“Everything has been figured out except how to live” - Jean Paul Sartre
I have never been known for my competitiveness, in fact i am the least competitive person you will come across. This is perhaps the only thing uniform across all areas of my life. I would rather let everything pass me by, waving cheerfully as they do so. ‘I would rather’ is the driving force of my life, i would rather listen than talk, stare at things than listen, lie on the bed and wonder than stare, etc. depending on the choices i have at a given time and what they yield.
It has been years listening to and executing tasks that were ‘for my own good’, I actually never could. It just doesn't come to me to run after things, to do all that and be there only to feel nothing, to meet people and socialize only to agree with them ( and why is it so important to think the same things anyway ?), to eat out at expensive places only to display on social media so that we can make others feel bad about missing out and act it out too, to live under constant pressure to talk to people ( why is silence so uncomfortable?)
Maybe there are people who actually derive something worthwhile from it, i agree sometimes i admire people who never give up on things who achieve what others only dream about but then what if i don't want those things. The problem is that people are expected to ultimately have similar dreams. Our world has standards for dreams too. What if i want to stare at the dancing shadows casted by the trees in summer, what if i want to walk down the streets for as long as i want without being bothered by time or people, or look jealously at leaves falling from the trees as they are blown from place to place as the wind pleases or just be! They say time flies by, make the most of it but they don't tell you how? Why can't we make the most of time by being actually aware of every minute, conscious of every breath as long as we can breathe. Why participate in the race to acquire more and more money only to exchange it for things we don't really need?
I have never been known for my competitiveness, in fact i am the least competitive person you will come across. This is perhaps the only thing uniform across all areas of my life. I would rather let everything pass me by, waving cheerfully as they do so. ‘I would rather’ is the driving force of my life, i would rather listen than talk, stare at things than listen, lie on the bed and wonder than stare, etc. depending on the choices i have at a given time and what they yield.
It has been years listening to and executing tasks that were ‘for my own good’, I actually never could. It just doesn't come to me to run after things, to do all that and be there only to feel nothing, to meet people and socialize only to agree with them ( and why is it so important to think the same things anyway ?), to eat out at expensive places only to display on social media so that we can make others feel bad about missing out and act it out too, to live under constant pressure to talk to people ( why is silence so uncomfortable?)
Maybe there are people who actually derive something worthwhile from it, i agree sometimes i admire people who never give up on things who achieve what others only dream about but then what if i don't want those things. The problem is that people are expected to ultimately have similar dreams. Our world has standards for dreams too. What if i want to stare at the dancing shadows casted by the trees in summer, what if i want to walk down the streets for as long as i want without being bothered by time or people, or look jealously at leaves falling from the trees as they are blown from place to place as the wind pleases or just be! They say time flies by, make the most of it but they don't tell you how? Why can't we make the most of time by being actually aware of every minute, conscious of every breath as long as we can breathe. Why participate in the race to acquire more and more money only to exchange it for things we don't really need?
In this world of haves and have nots, i feel like we are all puppets with invisible strings attached to us, but who is the puppeteer?